A hand job is by definition using ones hand to sexually arouse someone by touching their private parts. For men this can be achieved by using lubricants on one’s hand then grabbing the penis and making up and down strokes on the shaft of the penis. One increases pressure as the penis gets stiffer to increase stimulation, grab the penis using both hands then move both up and down at the same time then interlace your fingers as your hands move together.
Another option is to play with the testicles by lightly squeezing them in one hand or toying with one at a time. One can do this consistently till the man is ready to penetrate the vagina or till he ejaculates. Using different positions can also increase the amount of pleasure and breaks monotony of staying in one position. The partners can agree on which position they are comfortable with.
For women, one uses the fingers on the clitoris by rubbing them in a circular motion over the clit hood to warm up the clit in readiness for direct stimulation. Use the middle finger and water based lubricants so as not to bruise her clit and after a short while she will get wet and thereafter you can spread the clit lips apart as you slowly slide your lubricated finger up and down, side to side as you constantly stare into her eyes to determine which side she likes most then increase the pressure and speed till she gets an orgasm.
One can also gently rub the clit head in circular motion or grasp gently the clit shaft using your thumb and index finger and in a rhythmic motion massage it up and down as you maintain your finger on the shaft as you ensure not to pull back too far the clit hood.
One can alternatively use the middle finger to penetrate the vagina as you slowly insert and remove it as you twist in circles. Ensure each time you insert back the finger you go deeper and deeper then finally use two or three fingers and curve them upwards so as to touch the upper vaginal wall. The G-spot should be felt there and constantly stimulating it can lead to a serious orgasm. You can also stimulate both the clit and the G-spot at the same time to generate greater orgasms.
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